Taking Things One Day At A Time

A while back I posted a blog about my husband and i separating and possibly getting a divorce.....

Well, this week I will be completely moved out of our home except 4 pieces of furniture that will be moved in the next 2-3 weeks.

But my husband and i are continuing to talk daily through phone calls and text chats and so we are keeping the lines of communication open and if he decides to want to work things out then it will be easily done

Yesterday when I went over to our home to finish going through what little bit i had left of small things, we talked for 4 hours and even went down the street and had dinner together for the first time since all this started nearly 2 months ago.

I am continuing to go to counseling and getting treatment for my PTSD, and I am even making progress already.  In just 2 session with my counselor I have already been able to heal and move on from one of the traumas in my past.  Normally after a past counseling sessions i would leave feeling more traumatized and scared than ever.  But not with my new counselor she had me go through this certain trauma and by the time I was done with the session she had me so calm and relaxed that for the first time in my life I was happy and felt good mentally and even drove home!!!!!  And the night terrors i had been having that were related to this trauma have stopped!!!

My husband noticed a big change in me emotionally and mentally, and is very happy to see me making progress. 

But so far he still doesn't know what he wants to do on either working things out or going through with the divorce.  That is why i am taking things one day at a time with him and preparing plans to move forward with depending on which way he decides to go with our marriage. 

To my friends who are reading this, please continue to pray for me and my husband and that God's Will be done in all things in our lives.